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Kids Golf

 

LEARNING VS. BEING TAUGHT (George Connor)

How to Help Your Child Enjoy the Game We Love

Before I begin, perform this short exercise. Remember hidden dreams, visions and aspirations of your childhood. Ask yourself, what if I would have had nothing but encouragement and affirmation that I would manifest my dream-how would my life have been different?

True play is that environment in which everything is possible. We can be anyone, do anything, go anywhere and have it all without limits. As adults, we tend to forget what it was like to be able to play and absorb ourselves completely in the game.

Dr. David Chamberlains video, Babies Know More Than You Think, is very informative and one that should be seen by all parents. In the video he reveals that a newborn child comes into this world compelled to learn through interaction. At first, we adults don't recognize our babies in a state of play. Initially, we see a bundle of reflexive activities. Arms and Legs wiggle and jolt sporadically. There is reaching, grabbing, staring and searching. These activities develop the reflex systems of the body.

The infants first job in the first year of play is to learn bodily control. Getting into Everything is a phrase often heard, and often used to describe my 15-month-old daughter. The more they get into, the more they can connect and expand. Doing is learning. Without assimilating it, the infant is learning the world is infinite and humans have infinite possibilities.

There has been much research on how a young child learns. It is known that in the first seven years, every activity and event goes directly to the brain and body where it is registered and stored. Neurons connect, and neuron fields connect to neuron fields by the billions. Each event is pure learning.

Therefore, a "reason" to play and to interact, and to learn by doing so, would be ridiculous to a child. That young person is compelled to interact. Play is learning. Learning is play.

Kids don't care about the names and types of play. Kids just play. Adults may find it useful to identify types of play, perhaps feeling more encouraged to play if the activity is perceived to have utility.

Play can be categorized intellectually into various varieties which serve functions for developing systems. Each form of play interacts with other forms and, as these different designs and purposes mingle, they complete the interactions, which we call intelligence- the fundamental basis of future athletic performance.

Imitative Play. Children imitate actions of their adult models within the childs perceptive field. All learning is based on the model. Simply stated, we all need a model in order to learn that thing. To learn to write the letter A, we need a model we can imitate.

When a child plays dress up to look like mom or dad, the child is imitating the model. When he or she picks up a stick and makes a golf swing motion like the one seen on television, it is imitative play.
Creative Play. With a multitude of models to imitate, children synthesize the characteristics of each and come up with the best. A child will see one player putt one way and another use a different style. Left to his own devices, the youngster will try both styles and create yet a third style, which is a composite of both models. This creative play is the very foundation of invention and evolvement

Given time the child will develop the ability to achieve the goal. They will gravitate to the pleasure gained from the ball going in the hole and away from the activity, which does not offer that reward.

Role-Playing. Role-playing is very similar to imitative play. When a child is exposed to lots of successful models, he or she will choose one or more successful golfers to emulate. In the childs imagination, he or she becomes that person/model, pretending to be the great player.

Role-playing is essential for the athletic development of a child. The young athlete witnesses the performance of an admired performer and then pretends to be that player in every nuance of technique and mannerism.

It is important to note that role-playing can also take on a limiting affect. Throwing clubs, pouting and fits of anger on a golf course are also learned behavior. You may find that a child never exhibited these traits until they play with adults.

Remember this rule; The human brain does not care what it learns; it just learns the models put before its receptive senses.

Visualization Play. Visualization is a very common form of play. Virtually all people have a movie playing in their brain at all times. So pervasive are these movies that the adults have long since ceased to notice the screen is occupied with some image or another.

For example: What did you do yesterday? Tell me about your tee shot on number seven. The projection of these activities means you play a movie in your head.

The down side to this is that other people can edit your movie. Likewise, adults tend to edit the child's movie by giving unsolicited advice to the junior golfer.

An infant or toddler taken to the range to watch mom and dad hit balls will be imprinting golf pictures even though the child may seem uninterested. It takes just a few glances by the infant to make an internal photo of what mom and dad are engaged in doing. Incidentally, as a Teacher, I can sometimes know what set of parents a child belongs to just by seeing their swing. The child's swing often resembles closely that of the parents, for good or for bad.

Symbolic Play. This is imagination in its truest form. A child pretending that a shovel in the sandbox is a bulldozer, the bathtub is the ocean. A child does not need a golf club to play and experience golf. Adults need the child to have a club and a ball. A young child can use a stick for a club, a dandelion for a ball and the backyard becomes Augusta National. Keep in mind that the child is not pretending, rather, it is real.

Social Play. The play between children continually expands their world, references and models. Children allowed to enter into social play learn rules, sanction, rewards, limits, emotions, movement and expectations. Social play also limits learning to the precepts of culture. In social play, the child learns the rules, ethics and morals of the children being played with. Left to their childlike imaginations and creativity, youngsters playing together will participate with enormously vigorous energy punctuated by periods of total rest until they have recharged their batteries, and then play hard again. This social play builds structures for team play and social behaviors to be used throughout life.

Independent Play. That children will play by themselves for long hours is just as important as social play. In the internal world, the child has autonomy and complete dominance over his/her environment. Through independent play, the child is becoming master of his or her body and surroundings. This independent play is a critical foundation of confidence in the ability to perform. Confidence, needles to say, is the capacity to move toward a given goal or task even when the world may be suggesting this is an impossible shot.

The most significant outcome of play is the role of play in formation and expansion of relationships. Play is the pivotal constituent of personal, social, universal and conceptual relationships.

Play connects everything in the brain. Play offers unlimited experience. The golfer raised in the full array of play perceives the relationship of the ball, the club, the wind, the distance, the air temperature, the humanity, the slopes, the textures, the sounds and the thousands of other variables, which form the relationship between the golfer and the target. The playful golfer trusts and follows this intuition explicitly.

So what does all this mean and why is a Golf Professional talking about it? Read the types of play again. Play is Learning. Leaning is Play. A child can learn to walk, talk, relate and play without formal instruction. A child can swing a baseball bat and throw a football by mimicking a model. Why then can we not allow a child to learn to play golf by the same mechanism? I am not a tour player. I can shoot par on occasion. I can also shoot 85. Would I like to be better? Yes. Would I have been better today if I was given complex and formal instruction from the earliest of age? Definitely not.

Allow your children to play. They will learn all the rules and etiquette as they move along. Play with them. Encourage them without condition. Before you begin to give advice on the proper or right way to swing a club, watch them develop. Expose them to the game by letting them watch, mimic adjust and create. The human mind and body has no limitations save those placed by society and culture. As parents and coaches we need only to keep the play safe.

If a child enjoys playing a game, they will want to continue to play. The game, whatever it may be, becomes more fun as they gain skill. Just as a child will remember not to touch a hot stove, because it hurt, a child will learn not to perform an athletic movement in a way that will not produce the desired result. The child, given time will find the best way to perform a motion. In the end, this will be developed through a combination of trial and error, creativity, imagination and mimicking. The most beautiful part of this is that when they have developed their style it is exactly that; theirs.

Much of my research into this field has come from the following sources:

The Magical Child by Joseph Chilton Pearce

The Book of Virtues by William Bennett

Babies Know More Than You Think with David Chamberlain and Suzanne Arms

Two wonderful foundations that are worth looking into:

Athletics and the Intelligence of Play. You can read more about the organization at www.magicalathlete.com.

Touch the Future Foundation. This is more in the realm of educational and health and well-being institutions. It is a non-profit learning and design center, the goal is to help adults recognize and respond appropriately to this optimum learning state. They recognize that low achievement in normal individuals is most often the result of unhealthy environments, falsely perceived limitations, fears or resistance to learning, rather than limited potential.

They can be reached at:
Touch the Future Foundation
123 Nevada Street, Suite A
Nevada City, CA 95959
(530)265-8494