In casual golf we sometimes have a bad shot, and my friend calls a "second try" a Mad Ball.
How many times are these second shots great!
Almost always...
Now,
why? Could be a few things, but I think the
main reason is we are "relaxed about the
target."
Sure we want to realize the target, but don't get so TIGHT that you can't take a relaxed swing.
The secret to golf is CONTROLLED-RELAXATION. Find that answer and call me!